Boyfriend problems HELP ME PLEASE I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER!?

ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month now and like I like him a whole lot (let's just say him name is bob) ahah ok so bob and me have never kissed but he has kissed me on tha cheek before but it's because he isn't aloud to go out or hang out like ever do I only see him at school(8 grade) we have been lately stating after school to see eachother and the fiset time we did stay after school we were sitting on tha benches and he kept getting closer and closer to me until I was on his lap basicly and It was really weird for me but I liked it he was holding my hand and all that mushy stuff and it was really cute. The 2 time we did he had this chick friend of his with her bf and they were all like yeah we have he before, wait have you and lauren? (me, to "bob" lol) and bob was all no not yet but once I get my bike fixed we will because then I'll be able to come to her house. When her parents are gone and he sao this right in front of me and had never asked my opinion on (I don't feel the need to wait fer marraige) but then thy left and he started hugging my from befind and sorta me lol XD and then we sat on the benches holding hands and the he started poking me like right at my belly on which made me squal which be think is hot he says and started pushing my tummy but LOWER and lower while wispering somethings in my ear that you really don't wanna no lol if ya no what I mean and started lifting my shirt a bit and poking me under neath my shorts (not my va j j tho) and when he was done he said that he's been wanting to do thy fer a long time and everytime he pokes me (which is alot) he is wanting to be doing much more than that he is a vergin and I'm his 1 gf I am too but he's not my 1 bf and he always cones up behind me putting his face in my neck while hugging my with his hand around my or if he hugs me from the front then he always putting his hands on my . He is my first serious boyfriend and I just want to know if this is normal for a 13 year old boy..